Am i a jerk or something? Fiance want's to go out for the whole night?

Okay so here’s the situation. My fiancé wants to go out on Saturday to a friend’s house that’s like 45-60 min away. Which I really don’t mind if that’s what she wants to do. But the thing is. We never get time to see each other I work nights and she works days so the only time we see each other is when she comes home for lunch or if she stays up at night when I get off work at midnight. And I’m not like this controlling freak out guy. She has gone out for the night while I stay home with our daughter plenty of times. The last time she went out she told me “ ill probably be back in like 2-3 hours” and didn’t come home till 6:30 the next morning (left at around 9 night b4). Which okay yeah I was upset about that. But who wouldn’t be. The time before that I was seriously ill with influenza B and bronchitis at the same time. I literally could not move. And when she was leaving I simply said please don’t get really drunk because I’m really sick and I can’t take care of you… BOOM! Comes in stumbling with someone holding her up and she’s throwing up all over. I had a fever of 104 the next day. So that’s exactly what I needed. Anyways were getting off topic. She wants to go out this weekend and since it’s a 3 day weekend I thought that Me, Her, and our daughter could spend time together but she wants’ to go Saturday during the day and come home either late sat night or early Sunday morn. While I stay home with the little one. And now since she wants to do this she keeps telling me like to go do things but I stay home from the time my daughter gets up I the morning 98% of the time it’s just me and her till my fiancé gets home then I leave for work and come home just to go to bed and get up with her the next morning and so on. So who am I supposed to go out with I have no life outside my family and all I want to do is spend the longer weekend I get this weekend with the 3 of us… I dunno what do you think yahoo. Sorry for my grammar I suck at it