I want to be a dancer. .....?

no offence meant, but those are very high expectations for a 14 year old. you might be 14, but it takes more than just a want to do all of those things. choreographers aren't paid great unltil they are well known and to WANT all of those things just isn't enough. you probably won't get into a dance college until you're about 18 when regular college starts. I didn't get into one until then and i've been dancing since I was three for five days a week two hour rehearsals each day. now I'm at 7 days a week and still 2-3 hour rehearsals.